Interactive game: DIR - Floortime - PLAY

Relationship building through emotional empathetic and playful interaction

  • Are you worried because your child is not yet speaking and is hard to reach emotionally?
  • Do you wish someone could show you how to have fun with your child and reach them emotionally instead of looking for a diagnosis?
  • Are you looking for alternatives to Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) that are based on a play-based developmental approach?

D - I - R

stands for Developmental - Individual-difference - Relationship-based and describes an individualized relationship-based developmental approach to understanding mental-emotional development

D - Developmental (Developmental)  

The foundation for a child to develop relationships and learn to talk and play consists of 6 functional emotional developmental capacities (FEDCs) that build on each other and are called the emotional DEVELOPMENTAL LADDER. As humans, we are all always moving up and down this developmental ladder, depending on how we are feeling emotionally at the time.

I - Individual differences  

Every child is different with an individual sensory-motor profile and their own way of responding to the world. 

R - Relationship-based  

A child needs warm relationships with others who care for them and who sensitively adjust their interactions end developmental capacities to meet the individual needs of that child so that they can progress.

 

DIR is the theory and Floortime is the application.

Floortime

denotes joint 1-1 play sessions with your child (often, but not necessarily, on the floor) with relationship-building as the goal, in that the adult's interaction is empathetic to the child AND a philosophy with a holistic relationship-oriented view of the human being in which feelings and emotionality are central.

What is DIRFloortime?

The DIRFloortime approach aims to build relationships through positive emotionality and interactive play sessions. It gives you a "map" for your child's development and a clear guide when you have lost your bearings because your child is behaving puzzlingly or not developing as expected.

DIRFloortime is a play therapy based on the child's developmental level and helps children with developmental disabilities or autistic behavior to develop.

The focus of DIRFloortime is to support the child's personality development as a whole person, so that he or she not only grows and learns intellectually, but above all can use his or her own strengths to overcome his or her challenges, i.e. we work from the inside out ("Inside Out").

Building bridges for autistic children Playing together - in the past and today

Children used to play a lot more and you had to constantly remind them to come home. Today, it's the other way around - taking them outside. When I was a child, we were always outside - almost whatever the weather. We played familiar games (cops and robbers, tag, hide-and-seek, change trees, ball games), went roller skating (free skating or racing) and sledging in winter, played mother-father-child and were very, very creative, climbed trees and over fences and made discoveries - and learned social behavior "along the way". The older children looked after the younger ones, even children in baby carriages were there (even if we sometimes "forgot" them). "When the lanterns come on, you have to be at home" - I still sometimes think this sentence today when the lanterns come on. There was only one television program. On Sundays, we listened to "Kalle Blomquist, the master detective" on the radio.

Renate Kuhn
Social pedagogue

Following the child's lead AND challenging them to climb the developmental ladder at the same time.

The basic building blocks for all learning processes, including language development, consist of the child's inner motivation and enjoyment of being with other people.

By Follow the child's natural emotional interests (i.e., let them take the lead), while challenging them at the same time using emotionality and playful interaction as well as "communication circles", we guide the child to relate and make increasing use of his social, emotional and intellectual abilities.

These developmental ladders are available for purchase as handy FEDC postcards so you can always have them on hand, in your pocket, on your refrigerator, or even share them with teachers or kindergarten for better orientation. 

What distinguishes the DIR-Floortime approach from behavioral training approaches (such as ABA)?

The DIR approach is fundamentally different from traditional behavioral therapies (such as ABA, applied behavior analysis). The latter are designed to produce behavioral change and to rehearse with the child a specific behavior that is determined by the caring adult, without paying attention to what is going on emotionally or internally in the child. In contrast, the multifaceted, holistic, and reflective DIR approach, first formulated by Dr. Stanley Greenspan and his wife Nancy and colleague Serena Wieder, focuses attention on the child's specific interests, processing skills, and relationships, as well as our own personality and reactions to the child, and the family structure.

Through this positive, dynamic and playful approach, we redefine autism: namely, as a developmental disorder with excellent prospects for growth and positive change. Using the DIR model, which describes the child's overall mental-emotional development through Functional Emotional Developmental Levels (FEDLs), she sheds light on the mysterious symptoms. In this method, you try to empathize with the child's world and "pick them up" about their interests and pull them into a common world to help them climb the developmental ladder. In other words, it's about lovingly accepting your child at their current stage of development and nurturing their strengths to help them develop their weaker sides as well.

The goals of the DIR approach are not primarily "autism-specific," but are the same goals that all parents want for their child: a stronger emotional bond, warm relationships with others, communication through gestures and intelligible speech, involvement in meaningful activities, and the like. And it includes strategies, techniques, and activities to achieve these goals. After all, relational skills are the basic prerequisite for other cognitive, social, emotional, language, motor, and self-awareness skills to develop to their full potential.

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